Why ??!!...The whinging,moaning,complaining,ranting,letting off steam thread !!

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  • SIS_HQSIS_HQ At the Vauxhall Headquarters
    edited January 2023 Posts: 3,789
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    Having lost my job two weeks ago I am still in shock and at a loss what’s worse this is the second company to let me go due to my adhd and while I could sue what would I gain out of it… I have a few prospects but nothing is exciting and I just don’t know what to do
  • BennyBenny Shaken not stirredAdministrator, Moderator
    Posts: 15,135
    Very sorry to hear that @Risico007
    That’s a horrible situation to be in, hopefully things turn around for the better very soon.
    Good luck to you.
  • CommanderRossCommanderRoss The bottom of a pitch lake in Eastern Trinidad, place called La Brea
    Posts: 8,255
    Risico007 wrote: »
    Having lost my job two weeks ago I am still in shock and at a loss what’s worse this is the second company to let me go due to my adhd and while I could sue what would I gain out of it… I have a few prospects but nothing is exciting and I just don’t know what to do

    Well, considering the judicial system in the USA, I'd go for one of those pro-bono lawyers and see what you can get.
    Other than that you'll just have to go and try again. Perhaps somebody in your circle know some place, where you can be introduced.
  • NickTwentyTwoNickTwentyTwo Vancouver, BC, Canada
    Posts: 7,547
    Risico007 wrote: »
    would I gain out of it…

    Money

    In all seriousness, I'm sorry to hear about what happened. I lost my job in October as well and it was a very stressful time. But I'm sure you'll find something soon.

  • edited January 2023 Posts: 1,708
    so the guy in Monterey Park killed 10 people over jealousy (he wasnt invited to dance club like his wife was) and domestic dispute with his wife ?

    that would be like starting shooting if you were denied access to a club or something
  • DarthDimiDarthDimi Behind you!Moderator
    Posts: 24,179
    Tracy wrote: »
    so the guy in Monterey Park killed 10 people over jealousy (he wasnt invited to dance club like his wife was) and domestic dispute with his wife ?

    that would be like starting shooting if you were denied access to a club or something

    But every time we demand that guns are taken away from people, we are ridiculed.
  • MajorDSmytheMajorDSmythe "I tolerate this century, but I don't enjoy it."Moderator
    Posts: 13,978
    Is it possible to have a day where Tory sleaze isn't in the news? "Integrity, professionalism and accountability at every level" didn't last long. Like a sex addict in a Brothel, they just can't help themselves.
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    Ok let’s see I had so much struggle just to get goldeneye first every time I tried to join ultimate on my Xbox one x it wouldn’t let me now I did it with the website and I will see if goldeneye works if it doesn’t I will be pissed
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    Is it possible to have a day where Tory sleaze isn't in the news? "Integrity, professionalism and accountability at every level" didn't last long. Like a sex addict in a Brothel, they just can't help themselves.

    At this point they're just trolling the whole nation.
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    I've received news that my comic book store has changed its hold policy. Before, I gave them a list, on paper, of all the comics I wanted them to put on holod for me, and when I had received my pay, I went to the store and I bought them. Simple, right ? But now, I have to do my reservations on their website, and pay in advance. You might think it's more or less the same thing, and in two months, it might well be. But the problem is that in february and march, I'll be forced to pay for two months of comics : those I have already put on hold, and those that are going to be published two months from now, and right now, I can hardly do that. Why do people change a system that works pretty well for one who works barely, if at all, I'll never understand.
  • DarthDimiDarthDimi Behind you!Moderator
    Posts: 24,179
    That's frustrating, @Gerard. I agree.
  • Posts: 15,117
    Not very customer friendly.
  • NickTwentyTwoNickTwentyTwo Vancouver, BC, Canada
    edited January 2023 Posts: 7,547
    Gerard wrote: »
    I've received news that my comic book store has changed its hold policy. Before, I gave them a list, on paper, of all the comics I wanted them to put on holod for me, and when I had received my pay, I went to the store and I bought them. Simple, right ? But now, I have to do my reservations on their website, and pay in advance. You might think it's more or less the same thing, and in two months, it might well be. But the problem is that in february and march, I'll be forced to pay for two months of comics : those I have already put on hold, and those that are going to be published two months from now, and right now, I can hardly do that. Why do people change a system that works pretty well for one who works barely, if at all, I'll never understand.

    The world keeps trying to go digital in all regards, and it's very frustrating. I'm finding that too in the hospitality industry right now.
    DarthDimi wrote: »
    Tracy wrote: »
    so the guy in Monterey Park killed 10 people over jealousy (he wasnt invited to dance club like his wife was) and domestic dispute with his wife ?

    that would be like starting shooting if you were denied access to a club or something

    But every time we demand that guns are taken away from people, we are ridiculed.

    I wonder if any of these second amendment nuts have ever actually read the second amendment.
  • DarthDimiDarthDimi Behind you!Moderator
    edited January 2023 Posts: 24,179
    Gerard wrote: »
    I've received news that my comic book store has changed its hold policy. Before, I gave them a list, on paper, of all the comics I wanted them to put on holod for me, and when I had received my pay, I went to the store and I bought them. Simple, right ? But now, I have to do my reservations on their website, and pay in advance. You might think it's more or less the same thing, and in two months, it might well be. But the problem is that in february and march, I'll be forced to pay for two months of comics : those I have already put on hold, and those that are going to be published two months from now, and right now, I can hardly do that. Why do people change a system that works pretty well for one who works barely, if at all, I'll never understand.

    The world keeps trying to go digital in all regards, and it's very frustrating. I'm finding that too in the hospitality industry right now.
    DarthDimi wrote: »
    Tracy wrote: »
    so the guy in Monterey Park killed 10 people over jealousy (he wasnt invited to dance club like his wife was) and domestic dispute with his wife ?

    that would be like starting shooting if you were denied access to a club or something

    But every time we demand that guns are taken away from people, we are ridiculed.

    I wonder if any of these second amendment nuts have ever actually read the second amendment.

    Doubtful. And then there is the simple fact that things that stab or require tedious procedures to be loaded and shoot somewhat precisely at close range at best are not the same as automatic high-precision, high-calibre 21st-century weapons that can mow down dozens within a couple of seconds and reduce them to puddles of blood, guts, bone and teeth. I think it's great that we have open access to aspirin and paracetamol, but the "right to painkillers" doesn't include powerful and addictive opiates without the doctor's permission, surely. So why gun nutters continue to treat their "Rambo" toys as "normal" stuff with which to protect the family -- which it almost never does, quite the opposite, in fact -- is beyond me. And a government that answers to lobbyists from the NRA is, well, a failed government.
  • echoecho 007 in New York
    Posts: 6,297
    There were no AR-whatevers in 1789 when they passed the second amendment.

    The problem is that my country is too big and ungovernable. It should be about five or six separate countries.
  • ImpertinentGoonImpertinentGoon Everybody needs a hobby.
    Posts: 1,351
    My fiancée and I wanted to open a joint account to organize our shared finances. We've been meaning to do this for a long time, but somehow never got around to it. With a wedding looming, we figured it would take a lot of hassle out of the organization, not having to split everything to our personal accounts. However, the bank both of us have been unproblematic customers of for about 8 years denied us a joint account. After some to and fro it turns out, my fiancée screwed up a few years ago, when she closed down her childhood bank account (because she had moved all her finances to this other bank. Or so she thought). Somehow, there was an unprocessed payment on a credit card connected to that account back then, which she immediatly paid upon being noticed of it. The credit card company still flagged a notice to the credit score company which means her banking credit score whatever is now shot. And because the credit card company only gives notice to the credit score people that this has been resolved at the end of the calender year, this entry only lapses at the end of 2023, although the offending incident happened three years ago next week and they supposedly lapse after three years...
    I kind of understand that from the outside it looks like she tried to screw the credit card company out of payments by closing down the associated account (and she should of course have been on top of her finances better to avoid this altogether), but I still somehow feel like there should be a better notice system than just "THERE WAS A PROBLEM! DON'T LET HER BANK WITH YOU!" and no consideration given to how the issue was resolved. From her side, she just closed down an account, got a letter telling her she had an outstanding payment, paid it and that was that. Turns out she's apparently completely untrustworthy in the eyes of banks...

    Anyway, it seems like we can now appeal the automated decision by mail and explain what happened and there is a good chance they will let us open a join account after all.
  • VenutiusVenutius Yorkshire
    Posts: 3,152
    From her side, she just closed down an account, got a letter telling her she had an outstanding payment, paid it and that was that.
    Yes, the way she sorted it out actually demonstrates that she's a responsible person who takes these matters seriously and moves to resolve things quickly. That should hold someone in good stead, not count against them.

  • edited January 2023 Posts: 346
    Here's a fine example of moaning...

    Eva's Green crazy and hilarious rant at film makers....
    The actress, who played Vesper Lynd in Casino Royale and also starred in the BBC1 series The Luminaries, is suing White Lantern for her fee of $1million (£810,000), which she claims she is entitled to under a 'pay or play' clause in her contract.

    The term 'pay or play' is used in the film industry to refer to when an artist is paid whether or not they are called upon to perform.

    White Lantern is defending the claim and bringing a countersuit.

    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11696025/Bond-girl-Eva-Green-arrives-High-Court-resume-showdown-doomed-sci-fi-film.html

    ;))

    I love her excuse for being rude, saying naughty words...
    "I'm French."







  • Gerard wrote: »
    I've received news that my comic book store has changed its hold policy. Before, I gave them a list, on paper, of all the comics I wanted them to put on holod for me, and when I had received my pay, I went to the store and I bought them. Simple, right ? But now, I have to do my reservations on their website, and pay in advance. You might think it's more or less the same thing, and in two months, it might well be. But the problem is that in february and march, I'll be forced to pay for two months of comics : those I have already put on hold, and those that are going to be published two months from now, and right now, I can hardly do that. Why do people change a system that works pretty well for one who works barely, if at all, I'll never understand.

    Not that I'm defending what I agree is a pretty "customer-unfriendly" policy, but just maybe the existing "system that works pretty well" for you isn't working well for your retailer? A lot depends on how frequently you pick up your on-hold stash and just how many books are in it... and for that matter, how many on-hold customers this retailer services. If you're getting paid once a month so you come in & pick up your books once a month... and you've got over 100 books in your pile at one time... and additionally, your retailer has a substantial number of customers who are doing pretty much the same thing... well, maybe your retailer just can't afford to be out-of-pocket that long for that amount of $$$. Of course, expecting you to pay in February for all of February AND APRIL'S books all at once obviously isn't a reasonable solution either. I recommend talking to your retailer directly; that way you can get a sense of the retailer's reasoning as well as making sure your retailer understands the impact this decision will have on your own ability to continue doing business with their establishment.
  • KormakKormak Texas
    edited February 2023 Posts: 4
    Gerard wrote: »
    I've received news that my comic book store has changed its hold policy. Before, I gave them a list, on paper, of all the comics I wanted them to put on holod for me, and when I had received my pay, I went to the store and I bought them. Simple, right ? But now, I have to do my reservations on their website, and pay in advance. You might think it's more or less the same thing, and in two months, it might well be. But the problem is that in february and march, I'll be forced to pay for two months of comics : those I have already put on hold, and those that are going to be published two months from now, and right now, I can hardly do that. Why do people change a system that works pretty well for one who works barely, if at all, I'll never understand.

    I mean if you've been buying like this for years, maybe they can make exception for you? I can see how this is in no way beneficial to the store itself: they're basically storing some amount of comics they would be able to sell earlier, but kept for your reservation for what seems no monetary value except customer loyalty I guess. Bet there were a decent amount of people who reserved books and never showed up.
    I used to "book" a whole bunch of stuff at the local sports store(Gritr Outdoors https://gritroutdoors.com/ if that matters), but oh well, they too had to stop it since they've lost quite a few sales 'cause some people were asking to leave a piece of gear and then not showing up...
  • CommanderRossCommanderRoss The bottom of a pitch lake in Eastern Trinidad, place called La Brea
    Posts: 8,255
    My fiancée and I wanted to open a joint account to organize our shared finances. We've been meaning to do this for a long time, but somehow never got around to it. With a wedding looming, we figured it would take a lot of hassle out of the organization, not having to split everything to our personal accounts. However, the bank both of us have been unproblematic customers of for about 8 years denied us a joint account. After some to and fro it turns out, my fiancée screwed up a few years ago, when she closed down her childhood bank account (because she had moved all her finances to this other bank. Or so she thought). Somehow, there was an unprocessed payment on a credit card connected to that account back then, which she immediatly paid upon being noticed of it. The credit card company still flagged a notice to the credit score company which means her banking credit score whatever is now shot. And because the credit card company only gives notice to the credit score people that this has been resolved at the end of the calender year, this entry only lapses at the end of 2023, although the offending incident happened three years ago next week and they supposedly lapse after three years...
    I kind of understand that from the outside it looks like she tried to screw the credit card company out of payments by closing down the associated account (and she should of course have been on top of her finances better to avoid this altogether), but I still somehow feel like there should be a better notice system than just "THERE WAS A PROBLEM! DON'T LET HER BANK WITH YOU!" and no consideration given to how the issue was resolved. From her side, she just closed down an account, got a letter telling her she had an outstanding payment, paid it and that was that. Turns out she's apparently completely untrustworthy in the eyes of banks...

    Anyway, it seems like we can now appeal the automated decision by mail and explain what happened and there is a good chance they will let us open a join account after all.

    Banks and insurance companies are by far the worst institutes possible. I am still trying to get a life's insurance for myself, now that I've got my own company. Yes, the amount they're supposed to pay is above average, but it is far away from beeing enough to even considering killing one-self to ensure my wife and son's secured income, even if I was deeply depressed. And yet I have to come up with 3 years of statistics from the company (it's one year old), and all sorts of other impossible stuff. I've got plety of proof of my current (sustained) income, but hey, that's not on their lists so doesn't count. Credit card on the company? same story. Idiotic.
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    Bootleg culture has gotten insane. Ebay is absolutely rampant with it; reproduction video game cartridges labeled as “brand new” are easy enough to catch because of low prices, but I got scammed on a 2-movie collection DVD of Deadpool 1 and 2. The picture used, which belonged to authentic copies, wasn’t what I got in the mail, and the seller rating was nearly 100 (do they find ways to fake good ratings too, or do people just not care about / notice bootleg?).
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    David's Tea is in trouble. I know they took bad decisions, but I hope they don't go bankrupt. I like their teas and accessories and they contributed make tea trendy in Canada.
  • echoecho 007 in New York
    Posts: 6,297
    Here's an adaptation of the YOLT ending nobody wanted:

    https://www.huffpost.com/entry/china-spy-balloon-republicans_n_63dd1099e4b01e928870c69c

    Perhaps they can use the "Jewish space lasers"?

    https://boingboing.net/2023/02/03/marjorie-taylor-greene-tells-another-lie-about-jewish-space-lasers.html

    She looks exactly like the gym coach she was before she was elected to (gerrymandered into) Congress.
  • j_w_pepperj_w_pepper Born on the bayou, but I now hear a new dog barkin'
    Posts: 9,032
    Thank you, @echo, for reminding us about those freaks on the MAGA front. I'm just afraid that it won't go down well with the mods if we go down deeper into that subject. Let it be stated here anyway that MTG and her minions are lunatics. (Hello, mods, delete this if you wish!)
  • DarthDimiDarthDimi Behind you!Moderator
    Posts: 24,179
    echo wrote: »
    Here's an adaptation of the YOLT ending nobody wanted:

    https://www.huffpost.com/entry/china-spy-balloon-republicans_n_63dd1099e4b01e928870c69c

    Perhaps they can use the "Jewish space lasers"?

    https://boingboing.net/2023/02/03/marjorie-taylor-greene-tells-another-lie-about-jewish-space-lasers.html

    She looks exactly like the gym coach she was before she was elected to (gerrymandered into) Congress.

    The real problem is that this woman can be elected as a representative in this day and age. The big mystery is that she wasn't kicked out of the republican party already. Not only is she either dangerously stupid or acting like it, but the things she says can manipulate a lot of people's thinking who do rather little of it themselves.
  • j_w_pepperj_w_pepper Born on the bayou, but I now hear a new dog barkin'
    Posts: 9,032
    Well, @DarthDimi, I already feel a lot safer regarding my opinion. The Republican Party or what's left of it is simply a major problem not just for the U.S. (do I care?), but for the world (I do!) if they managed to take back the presidency with those dumbnuts and freaks and frauds (George Santos, anyone?) in one of the future elections.

    And if they do, it will be the end, permanently, of the U.S. pretense to be a role model in the world, a model of democracy, a system everyone should follow. It worked mostly until the second Bush administration (the first Bush having repaired a lot of havoc that Reagan created), and it was mostly repaired during the Obama years, but the very fact that a figure like Trump could somehow be elected (disregarding the popular vote) pretty much dealt the death knell to the world's opinion of the U.S. as a stalwart of democracy.

    Good old Joe Biden, whom I consider honest and everything but not much more, may be trying to correct this, but if a Republican (not just, but mainly Trump) wins in 2024, consider the world doomed.
  • echoecho 007 in New York
    edited February 2023 Posts: 6,297
    I couldn't agree more.

    Gerrymandering is the main problem because once elected in speciously drawn districts, politicians become unaccountable and almost impossible to vote out of office, thanks to dark money and billionaire donors. I also blame the media (especially Murdoch) which is now nearly completely unaccountable and just makes up the news (Dominion voting devices, anyone? It sounds like a Star Trek villain).

    I don't know what the solution is. I wish we had leaders who led, but they (a) either want to stay in power at any cost and don't care much about leading or (b) are idiots.

    There are a handful of leaders who lead--I have all the respect in the world for Pelosi and what she accomplished in her tenure--but they are few and far between, in either party. McCain was another one who at least tried to lead and had some principles (excepting Palin). I would also put Murkowski more or less in McCain's category. She stands on principle from time to time. I think we need more women in government for a different perspective (hello, abortion!) but not just women.

    The notion of citizens serving in the government for x number of years and then returning to regular life seems to have been entirely and forever lost. In its place, we have career politicians and lobbyists.

    It is confounding and may end up destroying my country.
  • j_w_pepperj_w_pepper Born on the bayou, but I now hear a new dog barkin'
    Posts: 9,032
    @echo

    That's the main problem for us Europeans. We (at least the majority of us) don't wish to see your country and its system and its international role being destroyed. We especially don't want it to go down the same way as, say, Russia, Turkey and some others, with an autocratic (though pretending to be democratically elected) regime doing as it pleases. We need the U.S., with all its shortcomings, mistakes and failures of the past and present (say Vietnam, Iraq, Afghanistan, Guantanamo) to still qualify as a bastion of freedom and democracy and to be the leading power. But that won't work with a majority party consisting of nuts like MTG, Lauren Boebert, Matt Gaetz and the remaining despicable ilk surrounding them.
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